“Unique is a troublesome word”
You.
You have spent a very long time working on the person you are. Whether deliberately or not; the many years you have inhabited this planet you have been developing your opinions, interests and abilities  which has made you the distinguished person you are today.
Distinguished does not mean Unique. It does not always mean best dressed, sexiest, funniest, smartest, quickest, tallest or fastest. It just means defined. Recognisable. Indentifiable.
Somehow (and the method is not quite clear) we often manage to get the idea into our heads that we are SO unique, SO different that there is no way to find ANYONE who can tick all of our boxes.
So we settle. For less than what we want, for treatment lower than we deserve; because we believe it is the best we can expect.
Well, sugar, I’ve got a little wake-up call for you.
You are a product of the age you live through, the social ladder you grew up in and the tv shows/books/plays/games you encountered along the way and if you believe all of the things I just mentioned were not exposed to countless others; you aren’t being realistic.
OF course there are MILLIONS of people with your sense of humour, THOUSANDS with your opinion of what makes a good partner, HUNDREDS of them with the same top played albums on their iPod and countless of them single, gay and interested in someone just. like. you.
Until you find someone who makes you feel happy COMPLETELY, who you UNDERSTAND and who understands YOU.
Until you are completely happy. Until you make them completely happy.
Don’t you dare settle for less.